STORY: I’ve tried to keep my peace and protect my daughter’s privacy, but I can’t stay silent anymore. There’s too much being twisted and too many lies being spread about me and I won’t allow people to believe a false story when I’ve done nothing but step up and do what’s right for my child.
Let me be clear: this is about protecting my daughter, not responding to drama.
This weekend, once again, things were difficult ..not because of me, but because of her father and the way he continues to use control, jealousy, and manipulation instead of showing up as a parent.
He was supposed to get her Friday ..didn’t come until Saturday afternoon. And when I let him know that our daughter was crying and didn’t want to go to his house, I told him directly. She was upset, and asked me if she could stay with me ,she even sent him a voice message politely asking. And instead of respecting her feelings or showing care, he started accusing me of faking the message saying I was “pretending to be her,” mocking the sound of her voice, and making it all about me again.
In the middle of that, he saying he he don’t care he going to get her then he starts saying when he get her I’m going to be with a man and ima whore all this other stuff .
That’s where his focus is. Not on his child. Not on her emotional needs. But on me, my life, and trying to keep control.
On top of that, he cut our daughter’s hair on purpose, out of spite, she’s missed school, she was late to school the next morning because I had to take her to the hair salon to fix it. This isn’t just disrespectful it’s damaging to her well-being and her education.
Let me remind everyone:
We follow a court-ordered custody agreement. He’s supposed to return her by 7AM on Mondays.
He told me he wasn’t giving her back until Thursday and wasn’t taking her to school so I showed up at 7AM Monday morning to pick her up, like I’m supposed to.
He told me via text to “wait until 8”, then came outside without her, arguing, recording, and trying to start a fight.
So I call the police . He went back into his apartment and When he finally brought her out, she had no uniform, no backpack, and wasn’t ready because he doesn’t keep the basic things she needs at his house. And he wouldn’t let me get her..
The police were called because he was refusing to return her to me, and I wasn’t going to let it escalate with our daughter standing in the middle of it.
He constantly skips his weekends, goes out clubbing and out of town , then blames me like I’m keeping her from him. The truth is:
I’ve been flexible. I’ve kept her on Fridays when needed and other days .
I’ve done all the school drop-offs.
I’ve kept her routine stable.
He just took her to school for the first time last week.
He has 50/50 custody, and full access to her school, but chooses not to be involved and then tries to blame me.
Meanwhile, instead of being a present father, he’s constantly texting and calling me about who I’m with, accusing me of being with other men, and obsessing over my personal life all while ignoring how his daughter feels.
Let me say this loud and clear:
👉🏽 I am not responsible for him being a father.
👉🏽 I do not control how he shows up. That’s on him.
👉🏽 I will not let anyone shame me for protecting my child.
I’ve stayed quiet. I’ve been reasonable. But I won’t continue to let lies be spread about me, especially when it’s affecting my daughter.
This is not about drama.
This is not about control.
This is about a child who deserves peace not to be caught in the middle of one parent’s obsession with the other.
I’m done staying silent. I’m choosing truth and choosing what’s best for my daughter, no matter who doesn’t like it
Protecting My Daughter Amidst Custody Drama
Discover my journey of protecting my daughter from a tumultuous custody situation. It’s about her peace and well-being. #protect #policeoftiktok
Keywords: protecting my daughter from custody issues, co-parenting challenges, child emotional well-being, navigating custody battles, father not respecting daughter, custody agreement issues, ensuring child safety, parental responsibilities in custody,
